A friend online recently lost his job. He posted a picture of the
letter letting him go. Contrary to how many of us would choose to react,
this guy was ecstatic. He realized that by letting go of the job he
thought he depended on, his life was now open to new and exciting
opportunities that give him the chance to express and experience life his way.
So often, we look at life’s obstacles as disruptions in our lives, or
worse, as mini-tragedies. We get so wrapped up in our misery and sorrow
that we fail to realize that a new door has just opened up, providing
exciting opportunities, and more importantly, giving us room in our life
to accommodate something new.
I am reading an inspiring book called Window in the Wall, by
June Peacock, a 94-year-old neighbor who decided at the age of 89 to
write a memoir for her family. Mrs. Peacock (yes, that’s really her
name) recounts her life from early childhood in New York, to the family
farm in Pennsylvania, into adulthood – raising a family, losing a
husband not once, but three times in her life, and several careers that
she stumbled into along the way.
The ongoing theme of the book is “beauty from chaos.” June’s father
taught her at an early age to cross out the letter “t” in “can’t.” There
is always room to persevere, no matter how challenging a situation: You
can!
She finds herself at various points on her journey asking herself,
“How did I get here?” Each stage of chaos in her life has brought beauty
through new and exciting opportunities that she never would have
pursued voluntarily, but enriched her life beyond expectation when they
came her way. She finds peace and comfort in a place she calls “The
Cove,” a picturesque haven in the mountains of western North Carolina,
which becomes a focal point and inspiration for the beauty in her life,
even when times are challenging. (I have been there and it’s all that!)
Sometimes the wisdom of experience can be the greatest teacher.
Listen carefully to the stories told by those who have been down the
path. Learn from the lessons they willingly teach. More importantly,
listen to that still, soft voice of the ages that steers you exactly
where you need to go, even when you don’t want to.
When life’s obstacles get in your way, take the time climb over or
walk around them instead of fretting over how you got there. For each
roadblock and speedbump, there is always something around the bend
waiting for you to partake and appreciate, even if you can’t see what it
is from where you are standing.
There is a popular expression told in various ways, “When life hands
you lemons, make lemonade.” Sometimes the universe has to pry us out of
our comfort zone – losing a job, a failed relationship, having to
relocate – to force us to see the bigger and greater opportunities that
exist for us in life. If your situation has been handing you lemons, you
have a choice. You can be burdened by the sour fruit that will surely
go bad, or you can mix it with the sweet blessings that await you and
create a cool, refreshing glass of lemonade.
Many blessings…
Sunday, July 12, 2015
Sunday, March 29, 2015
Judge not
I have never considered myself a religious person, and I don’t
discuss my spirituality in public very often. All my life, I had my own
unique relationship with God, without having any person or a specific
church telling me how to do it. I consider myself a spiritual person,
and I gladly serve my denomination in a robe. Even before finding a
church that aligns with my personal spirituality, God and I always got
along just fine, and I think I have become a more decent person for
it. I believe in values embraced by Jesus, including:
There is no need for a personified God to condemn anyone, at our request or otherwise, for if there were, it would imply that the creative force of the universe is not perfect – that God made a mistake. For any person to take responsibility for God and condemn someone on their own implies that such person is better than God. God does not need any help. Each of us are expressions of God on our own path of understanding, and we’ll figure it out in our own way. What works for you or me might not work for someone else. Let us find our own way.
We’ll all get there. Some of us may choose to take the scenic route, while others want to be on the expressway. That’s okay. Just remember that taking short cuts causes us to miss out on the lessons that elevate us to a higher level of consciousness. We can’t learn calculus without learning a lot of other modes of mathematics along the way. We can’t be experts in our career path the week after we get out of school. We must learn the ropes. The same applies to life and spirituality. We have to learn our lessons, and if we don’t, we will continue on our path of learning until we do. No magic man in the sky is going to absolve us of our responsibility. Jesus had is lessons and so do we. Neither he, nor anyone else can do it for us.
The third commandment tells us that we shall not take the name of the Lord in vain. We think of phrases like “God dammit” as examples of this offense. What we don’t think about is that any time we call on God to do something on our behalf, or to meet our personal desires, we are taking the name of God in vain. It is not God’s job to do anything on our behalf. As with any good parent, it is the Creator’s job to teach us and encourage us to take care of ourselves without having to intervene.
I also believe that we are personally responsible for our thoughts and actions, and I believe in Karma, the law of cause and effect. The judgment of God is the judgment of ourselves. We must reconcile our less-than-holy actions in this life or the next. No one will punish us more than our own realization of the harm we have created in our life against our fellow humanity. God, a person, if there were such a thing, would only have to sit back and watch the show.
Most of these are not just Christian values, but universal values across all faith traditions. We are all equal in the eyes of God. I also believe that God cannot be condensed into 66 books, especially when much of those books’ content is contradictory, and based largely on very earthly culture and values of ages past. All things in this universe are of God, whether we perceive them as “good” or “bad” either 2,000 years ago or today, and whether or not they are specified in the Bible. Any person who condemns any part of God’s creation, condemns themselves, and they are condemning God. To condemn in Jesus’ (or Mohammad’s, or anyone else’s) name even further denegrates the purpose of religion and spirituality, and is by definition “unholy.”
If you are minding someone else’s business, who is minding yours?
Blessings…
- The Golden Rule
- God is Love
- Love Thy Neighbor
- Judge not lest ye be judged
- God is not a respecter of persons
- The Kingdom of God is within you
- Of the things Jesus did, we shall do those and even greater things
- All of us are God’s children
There is no need for a personified God to condemn anyone, at our request or otherwise, for if there were, it would imply that the creative force of the universe is not perfect – that God made a mistake. For any person to take responsibility for God and condemn someone on their own implies that such person is better than God. God does not need any help. Each of us are expressions of God on our own path of understanding, and we’ll figure it out in our own way. What works for you or me might not work for someone else. Let us find our own way.
We’ll all get there. Some of us may choose to take the scenic route, while others want to be on the expressway. That’s okay. Just remember that taking short cuts causes us to miss out on the lessons that elevate us to a higher level of consciousness. We can’t learn calculus without learning a lot of other modes of mathematics along the way. We can’t be experts in our career path the week after we get out of school. We must learn the ropes. The same applies to life and spirituality. We have to learn our lessons, and if we don’t, we will continue on our path of learning until we do. No magic man in the sky is going to absolve us of our responsibility. Jesus had is lessons and so do we. Neither he, nor anyone else can do it for us.
The third commandment tells us that we shall not take the name of the Lord in vain. We think of phrases like “God dammit” as examples of this offense. What we don’t think about is that any time we call on God to do something on our behalf, or to meet our personal desires, we are taking the name of God in vain. It is not God’s job to do anything on our behalf. As with any good parent, it is the Creator’s job to teach us and encourage us to take care of ourselves without having to intervene.
I also believe that we are personally responsible for our thoughts and actions, and I believe in Karma, the law of cause and effect. The judgment of God is the judgment of ourselves. We must reconcile our less-than-holy actions in this life or the next. No one will punish us more than our own realization of the harm we have created in our life against our fellow humanity. God, a person, if there were such a thing, would only have to sit back and watch the show.
Most of these are not just Christian values, but universal values across all faith traditions. We are all equal in the eyes of God. I also believe that God cannot be condensed into 66 books, especially when much of those books’ content is contradictory, and based largely on very earthly culture and values of ages past. All things in this universe are of God, whether we perceive them as “good” or “bad” either 2,000 years ago or today, and whether or not they are specified in the Bible. Any person who condemns any part of God’s creation, condemns themselves, and they are condemning God. To condemn in Jesus’ (or Mohammad’s, or anyone else’s) name even further denegrates the purpose of religion and spirituality, and is by definition “unholy.”
If you are minding someone else’s business, who is minding yours?
Blessings…